Philiphobia

   Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But sometimes, a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free, let your heart spread it's wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights but still, it will not rain forever. You may find love and lose it but "when love dies, you never have to die with it.." We fail and make wrong decisions in our lives but our blunders are meant to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process. With love, we learn how to care and make sacrifice. We learn how to be unselfish and give more than we can and when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it feels to fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that, "Life doesn't end where our heartaches begin." It's true that there's life in love , but there can still be life even after losing love, if you leave the past behind & let your heart heal. Instead of dwelling in the past, just give it to God because no matter what happened, in God's own eyes & heart, you are clean. You don't have to forget someone you loved. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. If you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. Cry if you have to, but make sure that your tears washes away the hurt & the bitterness that the past left you with. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. Loving someone is never a sin. It's what people do which is "out of love" that sometimes make it all wrong. Don't waste your time waiting for someone who never really cared about how you felt. Open your heart again & give yourself the chance to find the man who would make loving "worth the pain & sacrifice.". God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. He takes away people we love so much, so we can learn to value our self. He makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times of our lives & only if we put our trust in Him, we can learn to find joy in our tears & happiness in our sorrows. In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be painful than letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond the control of circumstances. The hardest part of losing love is letting go & moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been & never will be. Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves, a choice that we should make on our own. Acceptance is a key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. There will always be light after our darkness & lonely moments. There's always hope for those who believe in Him. Losing someone may not be a loss at all but a blessing because someone much better is yet to come.