How funny it is when you over publicly announce that you are in a relationship and changing your status after six months into "it's complicated". I'm not used to it either but it sounds so silly. I have set my facebook in it's most private mode days ago(but I can go back to its friends only settings once I've missed it) , and for making these things, I love being a little enigmatical. And a little amount of mystery is warm fuzzies for me.
I was checking my profile and on it's recent feeds, there were few of my friends who went from in a relationship to single or to it's complicated. So, I logged out of it leaving a bubble in my head, saying "uh oh". Now, for my own opinion, I didn't care how much they've been hurt. Ah, heartless I am? No. If you have just gone out of either a good or bad relationship, which saves you more from heartache? Telling each and every friend in your list that you are in the state of slump? Or keep it to yourself and nurture everything that has happened? I'd give a shot to the latter. I'm trying hard not to offend anyone here but again as I've said, I have the political right for this opinion.
If I see sweet wall to wall comments, it's indeed sweet. But for me, it's like evidences of unreal, mushy, resonating to puppy love play. Ooops, no offense. You can send it through a private message, email or text, but why post it for everyone else to read? Oh, you're too proud to say that you are in love! I guess.
This is just my plain opinion. Protect some part of your life that not everyone has the right to know, because some people don't really care about what's going on with your life. And do you really care that much for other people too? I bet not.
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